A lesson in attitude
"Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same."

- Francesca Reigler

It's easy to become mired down in the day-to-day inconveniences of life that seem to always crop up at the worst time. The line at the local coffee shop moves too slowly, the "check engine" light starts flashing or the television remote goes missing.

These trivial problems are often enough to sour our moods and make us feel as if the world has conspired against us.

It's important to remember, however, that a lost remote or a slowmoving line should not be given the authority to ruin your day.

Never underestimate the power of a positive attitude.

Need proof?

Take a moment to visit www.pedeferri.com, the website for Camarillo resident Anthony Pedeferri, a California Highway Patrol officer who was paralyzed after being hit by a suspected drunk driver while on patrol on the 101 Freeway in December.

The father of two and former Iron Man competitor is currently under the care of a team of doctors at Craig Hospital in Englewood, Colo. The facility, one of the leading in the U.S., specializes in the rehabilitation of those with spinal cord and traumatic brain injuries.

The website offers a truly incredible window into Pedeferri's ongoing recovery. The pictures of him, his family and fellow CHP officers give testament to a man who continues to touch those around him with his positive attitude.

The blog, written by Pedeferri's younger brother Mark, blends the details of a painfully difficult road to recovery with the good-natured humor one would expect in a close-knit family.

Visitors to the website can read Mark Pedeferri's blog, view pictures, post a message to Anthony Pedeferri and make donations.

Below is a Feb. 26 excerpt from the website's blog, a true reminder of the power of a positive attitude.

"I am more concerned about my brother's mental well-being and happiness than his ability to walk out the front door. I was able to spend some time with Tony and asked him how he is doing with this whole thing. When I asked him, he silently, yet cheerfully, told me, 'No, no, don't worry. They say I'll be able to take care of myself.' I tried to clarify by explaining to him I meant the long-term idea of not being able to walk, do physical activities, etc. He again explained to me that all was okay and that they say he'll be able to take care of himself. Tony went on to tell me that, 'Who knows? This may make my life better or make me a better person.' I stood in absolute admiration of Tony's understanding that functioning legs are not a prerequisite for a quality, meaningful life." - Mark Pedeferri